You shade your darkest secrets to your therapist due to the reason of respect against the therapist. But do you listen and identifies the therapist look and action towards you? Therapists usually see their patient as an object with the disease but beyond that feel sometimes, they too feel attracted by their patients. You need to keep in mind, that therapists a people too, and sometimes they have own psychological problems. Maybe he abuses of watching videos from xxx tube, and he feels that it is not enough for him.